Game on Romance

What we truly appreciate and considered special from us is self-honesty.

The best gift that we can present to others is our healing.

What is special from us that we can offer and share is the fragrance of healing. Ability to recover, unique dreams, our childlike nature, continuously seeking positive expressing outlets, moment to grow together.

Note: The closest one, the one who open boundary is the one who most capable of inciting the friction, goes both ways.

Their being is important and can look and receive any support even from the opposite gender.

Someone who we can give attention to and receive affection.

Someone who appreciates the time to reconnect within.

Someone who respects our struggle

Someone who can take care of themselves and provide a sense of security and safety, also healed by themselves.

Let live & Let go :

1. We are willing to let ourselves get support from another person.

2. We are willing to let ourselves draw life force in small things

3. We let ourselves discover a new person’s world and experience

4. We let someone learn our boundary by the way we live and act on

Partner Within First:

10. No debts, give because of joy.

12. Able to pass through intoxication and devaluation.

14. State feelings boldly.

17. Clarity, confirm the decision

21. Success in small things

22. Feels like sunshine

25. Can ask direct feedback

31. Encourage positivity

32. Have a desire to get the best in the field

33. Befriend to deal with trauma

We are adults, know the game, and can protect ourselves.

How can we handle judgment whether it’s good or bad?

Focus :

2. Emotional chest

3. Favourite stuff

4. Level of acceptance naturally

5. Level of support

6. Intensity of communication

7. Level of rejection while in contact

8. Favourite place

9. Level of growth

From this relationship, what kind of self-development we want to accomplish?

Rule :

1. Best friend in achieving dreams & self-care

2. Share expectations of an ideal partner in real life

3. Can do tracking

4. 1-2 day disconnected/week is a must.

5. Bring a reminder of self-care & respect.

6. Break up slots :(3 times). Easy: 1 week. Serious: 1 month. *Bring the argument.

"I will take care of myself for me. You will take care of yourself for you."

Mr. Brightside: Please remind us of inner peace and get us home. Not trapped in a flip-flop with anyone even to ourselves. (all good, all bad)

"I was the one at that time, not forever. People change. It didn't mean what I've been through didn't count and meaningless. I had through a lot and I couldn't lie. It was a time when love becomes respect. I appreciate the lesson and experience."

It would be better some than none. It would be better to know even the ugly side than not knowing at all. If it still breaks my heart, then I still have wounds from my parents that needs to be solved.

A test will come to purge us. What’s true and always be there, when we or our partner not ready to hug the pain. If anyone can’t keep it up, we want to be ready to suffer and hold the virtue. It's true intimacy when someone wants to admit the pain within firstly.

We are peaceful, they are peaceful : Awesome

We are depressed, they are depressed : Self-care together

What matters and the most important thing is we are safe and enjoy life.