Personality

"If we have to run, run as far as we can, as strong as we can, as fast as we can, life will always find us back. There’s something we can’t push, only to be pulled and wait. Do what we can. It’s our current capacity. What makes us success doesn't make others’, what makes us fail, doesn't make others’. Dream little. We are more worthy than we can possibly accomplish. A human being. A growing life. We can't buy our identity. We set our identity on how we see life and let others treat us. Maybe we are not enough to even our parents, but life is more than enough and meaningful as long as we can bear the pain."

“There’s something that I don’t know. Maybe I don’t know anything. The world is too big to be in my hands in a single lifetime. There’s a time when we become an adult and it’s a journey. We can start whenever we want. In fact, we can start now. Go explore, question me, discuss with me. If we have an argument or different opposition, you don’t have to be me or always follow me, you don’t have to change me either. There’s a time when we have to decide what we believe even though it’s not real and seemingly can be understood, but we have to choose what brings us more peace in our shattered point in life.”

“One day we’ll reach a moment when we can’t even have a grip on our body. A moment when we can’t find release from our body. At that moment, make sure we let life enters through us, disrupt our inner sense of self and connect to nature: natural light, eyes on greens, circular airflow, sky horizon, songs of the universe (winds, birds, etc), a space to be alone, and a paper to write. There’ll be always renewal of life energy."

"Now, if we can’t let it flow and go. It’s not possible for life to enter our spectrum. How much wants we desire to achieve will always make us restless, to feel the sense of power & security, and we can’t appreciate the needs that already have in our hands in every moment we live (nice shower, deep sleep, tasty food, funny chit chat). Get in touch with our feeling to cry. We can’t push it, we have to wait for it to pull us."

As a kid, we want to see:

1. Parent's guidelines on loss

2. A friend to rest and self-care, no meaningful pursuit

3. Understanding about pain

4. Mistake as a chance to grow

5. Separation from our parent and have room to grow interests and discoveries

6. Life is not just grey, but a rainbow also

7. Greatest teachers are experiences

8. Our head is clear and free from over-expectations

9. A hug : "It's okay son!"

10. Our parent resolve the home problem

11. An open communication

12. Life choice, problem, mistake, and the lesson is a family business

13. A membership of buddy and sisterhood

As a parent, we want our child to know :

1. Career choice and talent management

2. Money management

4. Grooming

5. Team building pulled by incentives

6. Rest well

7. Leisure

8. Self-care

9. Self-respect

10. "It's okay to be selfish. It's your time age."

As a parent, we would like to :

1. Hear basic knowledge

3. Giving punishment by removing privileges (money) & assign an extra task

As a parent, we would like nurture behavior and attitude of :

1. Joy of learning

3. Allowing feedback whether good or bad

4. Asking help

5. Promoting others

6. Sharing benefits

As a parent, we would like to show :

3. How to declutter

5. bump to each other,

6. Cheers

7. Proportionate entitlement when in house

Affirmation :

Inner peace is worth much more than our ambition.

We have a focus on personal life and friendships.

We can have a mature life and deal with real-life problems with an equal partner or group member.

We are just one bad day away from being anyone we dislike. Protest only makes us become someone we don’t like.

We are willing to see and welcome our dark shadow of love: distant, looking down, expectation, ugliness, fear, weakness, judging.

We are willing to drop the idea of a person’s role that closes to us and assesses a proportionate judgment also decide for better now.

We have the right to have our own time pace in realizing what truly happened.

We can respect and appreciate ourselves despite underachieving.

What we do daily is our passion though we don’t receive merits from it. We can wait if we are losing our ground and don’t know what to after, to embrace the unknown and uncertainties.

We love to learn; love clean, clear, and fresh of new things and experiences.

We can celebrate our success on our own.