Daily Life, Friendship, Work

Daily Life

We are willing to judge bad actions and give instruction on how to alter it. We can give direction and healthy affirmation.

We can enjoy a momentary silence. Being there. We can share a place and space to feel comfortable.

We have a proactive attitude: calling someone if we miss them, asking questions to understand, speaking clearly to be understood, saying our objections and our preferences, asking about something we want without being afraid of being rejected, telling our feelings if being hurt, share our happiness, tell 'I love u' to our family, can say no without guilt, ask time to take care of ourselves, saying true yes out of pressure and obligation, live our values and beliefs, ask support to pursue our own goals, can see someone suffering without helping them or intrude their life. We can view them as a separate person, yet can emphatize with their experiences. We understand the family dynamics.

We can increase our self-esteem by ourselves. We are not lusting slaves. We can handle our fear. We can enjoy our loneliness with activities that incite us. We can value and celebrate our little accomplishments and success. We matter. We have confidence in expressing our emotions, maintain healthy boundaries, and break the cycle of self-sabotage.

We are direct, sensitive, consistent, and supportive persons. We can feel safe and confident enough to explore our surroundings. We start having faith in our abilities. We learn how to be resilient and independent.

We can admit mistakes when wrong and accept responsibility for our behavior. We are refusing to intimidate and manipulate. We can communicate openly and truthfully. We can support other choices, encourage, and value opinions. We are willing to compromise, make decisions together, and reach a win-win solution to a conflict. We can give the benefit of the doubt.

We can spend time investing in ourselves (exercise, reading, touring). We can align our words with our actions. We can be open and receptive when hearing something new. We are prioritizing our fulfillment, therefore can manage our despair alone. We can find humor and joy regularly.

We can deal with trauma. We can deal with emotional pain. We are comfortable enough with our vulnerabilities. We can hold up a space for all of us. We do the work to meet our own needs first. We do the inner work to hold space to grow and evolve. We can be enhanced of who already we are. We also can upset others. We can decide what day we want to share. We can let go of what other people doing.

We can admit that we don’t know at all.

We can handle loss, rest, take self-care, and be there with no meaningful pursuit. We appreciate the time to reconnect within. We have the ability to recover. We are longing for an adventure to live. We are spontaneous persons.

We can live with regret. We can let go. We enjoy being graceful old, yet have a child-like nature. We can reach the depth and height of living satisfaction. We have a sense of inner peace and liberty.

We can focus on personal life and friendships. We have the qualities to nurture a relationship. We can have social integration.

We do like our self-appearances. We feel like sunshine. We have a vibrant and radiant living life. We are being grateful for our life.

Friendship

We allow for individuality, and bring out the best in someone. We can find pleasure in giving and receiving. We can accept limitations for ourselves and someone. We can accept endings. We are comfortable being alone. We can leave and separate from someone that has been closed to us.

We can pass intoxication and devaluation. We don’t trapped in flip flop love-hate relationship. We can keep the ball of romance in its place. We can see someone or something clearly.

We can have a mutual sharing in listening. We have an emotional chest, magic words and wisdom.

Love doesn’t have to be special.

Work

We can provide career and talent management for kids. We can build a team. We have ears to hear basic knowledge. We find joy in learning. We can share benefits and promote others. We respect our struggle without being envious.

We are mature people. We can provide a sense of safety and security. We can give clarity of decision.

We do have the desire to be the best in the field and have a can-do attitude. We have autonomy and actualization in our work.

We can receive compliments and say thank you.